Wednesday, May 28, 2014


one of the hand painted tunics aesthetically designed to express the need for women empowerment. It highlights the stronger side of a woman and challenges the notion that a female is a fragile creature. The bubbles symbolise freedom whereas the red loop pierced on ear symbolically represents social constraints, oppression, and slavery; caught between the two she struggles and searches for her true self and gender identity ! 
*Note : You can purchase this tunic on low price ! ( Half of the profit earned out of selling these tunics is spent on underprivileged girl’s education)

Self and Gender Identity of Females and Empowerment Issue

With the advancement of time, man has progressed much in terms of technology and quality of life but when it comes to women empowerment, he is still enslaved to the age old concept of hegemonic masculinity and female subordination. The society we live in regulates the gender and gender relations in a way that renders heterosexuality not just superior over other forms of being but the only right and the ‘normal’ state to be. Since heterosexuality attaches prestige to male dominance, hegemonic masculinity is over emphasized in such a system. This in effect, determines the share of power or power dynamics between the male and female gender and their relationship structure. An unfair distribution of power oriented towards male dominance ascribes an inferior status of subordination for females. Hence, in such a system, a submissive and physically attractive female is considered desirable for and by men, and if the society promotes hegemonic masculinity , heterosexuality, and male dominance , then the attributes - submissiveness and physical attraction- of females are considered acceptable and socially normative. In order to gain social approval, females under such a system, feel the pressure to come up to standards of beauty and behaviour set for them by the society which is a male dominant one oriented towards pleasing men and their needs. While such an approach may be geared towards pleasing half a population of our society -men and might even be successful at it, the other half faces the challenge  of identity theft, identity crisis, and role strain. It is only too unfair to ignore and tailor the needs of half a population in accordance with the dictations of hegemonic masculinity. Reversing the dynamics of power, that renders female dominance over men, at the cost of disrupting gender role structure and gender norms might prove to be an equal but opposite issue. However, assigning an equal status to women and liberating them from undue social pressures to come up to unrealistic demands of men and society, giving them an equal access to opportunities and resources for personal and intellectual growth, and ensuring provision of Human Rights for men and women alike could potentially obliterate empowerment issues for females. Educating not just women but men too about Women’s Rights would be a constructive step initiated towards granting women respect and dignity they deserve in society. 

Monday, April 21, 2014

Mirror mirror on the wall
Don't care who's fairest of them all
Queen of your own world ... and unstoppable
A woman, not a little girl
Life is in control

So feel free
Feel lucky
Be who you'll be
No need to change

Love, Love yourself
You're so powerful
Respect yourself
Love, Love yourself
It's so beautiful to love yourself
Every woman
Come on and shout it out
Every woman
Come on an let it out
Don't really wanna know... (?)
Love yourself

Uhoh oh oh X2
Uhoh oh oh oh oh oh

Uhoh oh oh X2
Uhoh oh oh oh oh oh

Independent on your own
Confident within soul
Go and speak your mind
Strong and tough
You're glamourous
Nothing more and nothing less
Stand out with some pride

So feel free
Feel lucky
Be who you'll be
No need to change

Love, Love yourself
You're so powerful
Respect yourself
Love, Love yourself
It's so beautiful to love yourself
Every woman
Come on and shout it out
Every woman
Come on an let it out
Don't really wanna know so... (?)
Love yourself

Uhoh oh oh X2
Uhoh oh oh oh oh oh

Uhoh oh oh X2
Uhoh oh oh oh oh oh

Everywhere you go
You're beautiful
And don't you know
You're beautiful
Beautiful

Love, love yourself X2

Love, Love yourself
You're so powerful
Respect yourself
Love, Love yourself
It's so beautiful to love yourself
Every woman
Come on and shout it out
Every woman
Come on an let it out
Don't really wanna know so
Love yourself

Uhoh oh oh X2
Uhoh oh oh oh oh oh

Uhoh oh oh X2
Uhoh oh oh oh oh oh

The Following lyrics are from Anne Trolle's Song Love Yourself.
Although I think the song puts too much emphasis on being beautiful, it's empowering message is very important. While its important to maintain discussions on struggle, its also equally important to help facilitate empowerment, and remember that joy and esteem are possible.
://www.infoplease.com/ipa/A0882775.html

The following link displays  wage gaps across gender and race. I think this is important because it demonstrates how oppression has material consequences beyond self doubt. Self doubt and negative images in the media are just ways to normalize the literal ramifications of prejudice and discrimination.

Lupita Nyong'o Oscar Speech

Recently, Lupita Nyong'o, the female lead of the film  12 Years a Slave  became the first Kenyan to win an Oscar. She used the opportunity to highlight some the ongoing obstacles facing women of color today. Particularly she addressed the battle to construct a healthy self identity. However what I find most inspiring about Lupita's speech is that it goes beyond just challenging Western notions of beauty. Lupita's speech subverts initial notion that  women need to be beautiful in the first place. With Lupita's challenging emphasis on how one "cannot eat beauty," she invites women to engage in an even deeper journey of self love and acceptance.
The Dark Girls Documentary directed by Bill Duke and D. Channsin Berry is very relevant to showing when witnessing the affects of white supremacy in women's lives. I think the contemporary footage and interviews also emphasize how immediate and present this issue continues to be.

Sunday, April 20, 2014

'Gora Rang' Complex 

The British raj took over the subcontinent region when the Muslim rule ended in 1857 and lasted uptil 1947. This shift of power brought along multiple socio cultural changes in the subcontinent whose effects are felt to date. Although the British rule came to an end in 1947, but White Supremacy kept ruling the mind of the natives for so long that the socio cultural patterns still reflect a sense of royalty and supremacy attached to anything that looks, talks, and behaves like the Whites. 
Pakistani women originally have dark hair, middle toned complexion, dark eyes, and sharp features and these physical traits were considered attractive for a long time in the region. Ever since the advent of British rule  ,however, the definition of beauty evolved and took shape of anything that looked similar to the ruling elite in the subcontinent-the 'gora' (White) population. The complexion of the ruling class along with their lifestyle started being considered and perceived as prestigious. The closer some of the local population members found themselves to be in resemblance with the dominant ruling White class, better the sense of power and confidence they felt. In effect, some of them would shed their own skin and rather feel comfortable in owning foreign traits that would give them a sense of superiority, power, and royalty. The term' Brown Sahib' referred to the concept of a South Asian man who often belonged to a higher social strata and adopted British/Western lifestyle appearing consequently to be 'brown on the outside and white on the inside'. The prestige and value attached to English medium schools in Pakistan today too reflects the heap of importance and meaning given to Western lifestyle with respect to being an elite class member in the society. For women , the picture is ridiculed further by setting unrealistic standards of beauty for them that comply with the traits of 'Whites'. Women are considered physically attractive if they have a lighter skin/white complexion. Media  in addition, reinforces and regulates the notion that 'white is pretty' and in order to look pretty girls should be white. Moreover, a lot of beauty products cash on this idea in order to retain their position in the market. Undue and unrealistic demands of the guy and his family especially in an arranged marriage setting are a social pressure on girls to come up to the standards of beauty set for them by the society which is oriented towards gratification of men. This in effect emphasizes the idea that women should be judged on the basis of their looks, and should be attractive and appealing. Unfortunately, such an approach highly overlooks the intellectual abilities of a woman which should actually mean much more, for its far more enduring and lasting impact on self and others, than any of the physical attributes she possesses. A 'gori' (white complexioned) woman is considered desirable by men and socially acceptable. It is interesting to note how a mere possession of a biological trait that no one could naturally have had a control over is over emphasized so much so that it puts a woman at an advantageous position compared to others in work, social, peer groups, media, career opportunities, educational opportunities, and leadership domains. Whiter complexion and fluency in English rather than talent and intellect sometimes earns women social acceptance and better career opportunities too. The 'identity theft' of minority group members and a minority within the minority group member-females, is socially constructed unjust and unhealthy phenomenon that calls for immediate attention. The purpose , however, should be to realize who we actually are and how to prime ourselves better fitting for our society psychologically, intellectually, and morally rather than hiding our true identities under an alien mask.